Be a leader NOT a follower

You now how girls sometimes start messing with u because one girl told them to and they follow that one girl here is what you do. Ask them if they want to go to your house for a sleep over or something and the more you do it they will say no to the mean girl and start to be your friend and when they do say to the mean girl it would be nice if you were my friend to. And you would all be friends. Happy friends that let every body join.